- Listening to @bigolpoofter speak about the politics of sex and #HIV – framing #transmission as a #crime doesn't help anything. Ever. #Sex20 #
- It's 1 thing to speak of "criminalization of transmission" another to speak of "laws regarding disclosure." Which sounds right t'you? #Sex20 #
- When you create something good & #share it w/others, it very quickly becomes bigger than yourself. The only thing to do is let it go w/#joy. #
- Sure, @CrystalDToys! Joining now. U-stream as we capture more interviews, but we'll chat & keep the #Sex20 search. http://bit.ly/aHO2d5 in reply to CrystalDToys #
- I'm learning a lot about what it means to be born to parents with #HIV Didn't know mother-to-child transmission could be avoided! #Sex20 #
- Why is it so hard to allow people to make their own #decisions Spread information & let us decide our own acceptable risk. #Sex20 #safersex #
- What if porn featured conversations between participants about their #sexual #status? That'd be even #hotter than condoms and lube! #sex20 #
- "Lo and behold, I'm a sexual being – and it's MINE! Who'da thought!" – Dr. Betty Martin #Sex20 #
- #Sex #Workers on SWOP panel range from "allergic to social media" to "cannot imagine doing this work without the #internet " Cool! #Sex20 #
- Interesting notion: might be ok for your child's friends to find your #sex #work site, but not ok for them to see a topless pic there #sex20 #
- "It's more interesting to me if someone wants to grow and learn. It gets boring after a while to just get everybody off all the time" #Sex20 #
- Feeling the need to session hop this morning – lots of great stuff and I just #can #039;t #limit myself! #Sex20 #
- Snuck into @ReidAboutSex's #media session. #Talking #points & #speech #patterns are discussed & planned out. Media is for #wrangling #sex20 #
- Make a good website. Get yerslelf into the #media Bring people to your #website That all ya gotta do, friends. That's it. #Sex20 #
- @hiohmegan Try the linksys in reply to HiOhMegan #
- Do not listen to Big Media when they say they'll give you back your stuff. Do not share without a back-up.- @ReidAboutSex Good Advice #Sex20 #
- "Remember, the average American reads English at or below an 8th grade level." #Accessibility is not only for the #smart or #educated #Sex20 #
- If the #rules are #stupid break 'em. You'll get a lot of great #media attention before They shut you down. #Sex20 #
- Get what you need. Don't wait for people to give it to you. Be so #helpful you're obnoxious and you'll be in the clear. @ReidAboutSex #Sex20 #
- Apparently on #Network #TV, November is #scandal #month – because that's why they're lookin' for ratings. Good to know! #Sex20 #
- You are always free to leave. If an interviewer is hostile, if you have been mislead, politely remove yourself. #Sex20 #
- About #media @maymaym asks: "how do you learn to talk to a new, unfamiliar audience?" @ReidAboutSex says" "Slow down, be self-aware" #sex20 #
- RT @scarletlotus: Never put a dollar amount out there first, ask "what's your budget?" when at all possible @loveuduckydoo #sex20 Yes-Right! #
- Remember: "It's probably not the end of the world. It just #feels like it is." @ReidAboutSex Easier said than done, my friend. #Sex20 #
- Oh, SO good to know that #NPR goes over-time to. Sometime a #great #conversation is just too good to end! #KinkOnTap #Sex20 @ReidAboutSex #
- Spkr @mrsexsmith discusses wanting (& having) what you want, even when it feels fucked up. Sometimes your own #desires need #consent #sex20 #
- Had a such fun chatting w/ @HiOhMegan, @ReidAboutSex, and Clea & Allena of http://bit.ly/31cS4p w/ @maymaym for @KinkOnTap! #sex20 #
- Knowing that you don't always say "yes" can make those you #love feel #valued when you do say yes to them. @mrsexsmith #sex20 #
- Enjoying @mrsexsmith joyously telling us that we all have to say "no" to each other – because she told us to. Is this consent or not? #sex20 #
- @bewareleopard Hello to the porch from Seattle! To whomever asked why I wasn't at Ford News this morning, well that's why. In seattle. #
- Truly enjoying @mrsexsmith's "Yes, No & Consent" workshop. All of these have been smart & #interesting but this one is so much #fun #sex20 #
- @maymaym Yeah, well, we're complicated. Because we're so smart and great and awesome. And stuff. in reply to maymaym #
- RT @Ropecast: OH "Do you 2 ever get to sex?" (@helio_girl) "With surprising rapidity and frequency, thank you!" #sex20 And damn proud of it! #
- Can I just say how incredibly glad I am to be here with @maymaym? I know it's obvious as hell, but I am full of #joy #Sex20 #
- If you question your partner's yes, don't ignore the feeling or ignore their #consent talk to them. Keep talking till you understand. #sex20 #
- Sometimes #consent signals come not through words but through #tone @maymaym shares an example-from his own erotica, no less! #sex20 #
- If you #consent to someone making decisions for you, it's important to abide by their decisions. #Trust has layers. Build many, more. #Sex20 #
- "My clients trust my implicitly-they just KNOW that I won't do anything they won't like. WHAT?!" OH in @mrsexsmith's #consent session #sex20 #
- Don't teach people to treat people badly. Don't teach men to treat women badly, women to treat men badly-be #excellent to each other. #sex20 #
- Many thanks to @lissyblog for reposting my #Defining #Kink talk-I'm honored. Check it out @ Carnival of Kinky Feminism! http://bit.ly/dqIiBY #
- So true -@zalsoa brings up the difficulty of creating an #illusion of #nonconsent for activities you love – even when you want to! #sex20 #
- Huh – "dirty" and "wrong" almost never figure into my sex life. More that our definition of "right" (SO RIGHT) is just … different. #Sex20 #
- Closing comments at #Sex20 What a fantastic conference – safe, comfortable, and cross-cultural, informative. Thank you, @sex20con #
- Raffle time at #Sex20 @Ropecast has won twice already! He claims he never wins anything, but I do not believe this. #
- Apparently, if you win once in this raffle you win twice or thrice! Hmmmmm #Sex20 #
- I see snow-capped #mountains from the window of my plane. Goodbye #Seattle Goodbye #Sex20 It's been great! Hope I see you both again soon! #
- At airport in DTW, watching the sun set at 9:00pm local. I have no clue how my biological clock is set on this endless day. 4 hours to home. #
- 87 degrees outside. An army of electric fans fill the library w/ breezes. Our patrons are sandalled moms & shirtless toddles. Hello summer. #
- @cunningminx I responded to your e-mail, but wanted to ping you here to make sure you saw – we should def. talk soon! Looking forward to it! #
- @Lia_Sphere So excited your'e gong to be there! We will hang. in reply to Lia_Sphere #
- @pledgemistress Turns out ICD is unreasonably sexy. Big surprise there, everybody. in reply to pledgemistress #
- Sending out follow-up e-mails from #Sex20 There're tons, but still, I wish I had gotten #cards from more people! If we met, drop me a line! #
- Went from feeling awesome to feeling exhausted to the point of tears & unable to even guess what all work I have to do in record time. Guh. #
- Oh no you DON'T Mr. Wiki! When I say make a page you bloody well make a page! I AM the #Wiki #Queen! #
- @zalsoa I am very good at telling things what to do. Some of them occasionally, even listen. cc@maymaym @sarahdopp in reply to zalsoa #
- Here is tonight: I drive home thinking it's late, I won't do much work tonight. 3 hours later it is dark and I have not moved at all. Go me. #
- How I deal with my generally v. discreet mice: When I see them, loudly proclaim "BAD. #MOUSE Stay in hiding, or I'll get #traps " #
- I am seriously enjoying having #breasts right now. Just sayin'. #
- "It's Christmas, and I have a puckish side that will not be denied." #
- @pledgemistress I've got a Leo and it's absolutely great. It ain't small, but I'm a-ok with that! in reply to pledgemistress #
- @Adisson89 If you're not going to Portland for 19 days, does that mean I get to see you at #KFADC2 That's in just 15 days! in reply to Adisson89 #
- @cunningminx Busy busy! Enjoy #shibaricon – contact us by e-mail or DM and we'll get a move on! in reply to cunningminx #
- Getting increasingly exciting for #KFADC2 Who's coming? Who will be coming as soon as I poke at them? (Poke!) PS My pres will research you. #
- @Adisson89 Roadtrip to DC? How long is that drive? I will wiggle for you! in reply to Adisson89 #
- Hey @nikolasco, did I hear you say you might know about a possible location for a #gathering post #KFADC2 Because that'd sure be shiny! #